Articles and Resources

This section brings together accessible resources drawn from my work with couples, my relationship education programs, and my research on marital deterioration.


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Understand the Process

Learn how marital deterioration tends to unfold, why different stages require different responses, and how Head, Heart, and Hands offer a practical way to understand the relationship.

Find the Right Kind of Guidance

Discover how relationship guidance can help a couple—or one spouse beginning individually—understand patterns, restore responsibility, and take realistic next steps.

Meet María

Learn about the professional practice, academic work, family-law background, and personal conviction behind Ser Nosotros.


The Spanish-Language Archive

The Ser Nosotros archive includes reflections, practical strategies, media appearances, and materials published over several years. These remain available in their original Spanish while I prepare a curated selection for English readers.